Coaching
is a form of learning, where a person - the coach - supports someone else - the coachee - to create learning and self development
for the benefit of the coachee.
Coaching is normally a conversation or series of conversations one person has with another.
The coach intends to produce a conversation that will benefit the other person in a way that relates to the coachee's
learning and progress.
Coaching may consist of two
people talking in a room, this is known as offline coaching. On line coaching occurs where one person may be observing
another person doing something eg. chairing a meeting.
COACHING IS NOT:
Structured training eg classroom
learning;
Therapy, psychoanalysis, psychotherapy;
neither is it a way of getting
someone else to solve your problems for you.
What you can expect from your coach:
Your coach will listen to you with a genuine curiosity to understand who you are, whatyou think
and generally how you experience the world. Your coach will reflect back to you, with the kind of objective assessment
that creates real clarity. During conversations your coach will encourage you to rise to challenges, overcome obstacles
and get into action. Because
the relationship is based on trust and openness, the contents of your discussions will confidential.
What your coach will expect
from you:
Your coach will encourage you to
stay committed for the coaching process. This means showing up for sessions, taking your own notes where appropriate
and keeping agreements you make during sessions.
Your coach needs you to be open
to the potential of coaching which means contributing to conversations honestly and openly; for instance if something isn't
working then your coach needs to know. If you know why a problem is occurring, say so.
The strength and power
of coaching relates strongly to the level of openness and trust between the coach and the coachee.
Copyright 2006 Find a Life
Coach.co.uk